I found out something that breaks my heart. One of the kids in my daughter’s class at day care is adopted. What breaks my heart is that his parents have to return him to a biological mother who didn’t want him.
He was a child born of surrogacy to a gay couple. The biological father, one of the gay men, was found guilty of being in the US illegally and of fraud and is now jailed in California. He never relenquished his rights. The mother had relenquished her rights in a letter, but Judge Lubeck found the letter flawed. The Worthington’s adoption petition was denied, but the judge left Anthony in their care.
The mother has since changed her mind and wants custody. The biological father wants his sister to have custody while he is in prison. There are so many people who want little Anthony, but who is best for him?
As I understand it, Anthony will have return to his biological mother soon. According to the Deseret News she regrets having put him up for adoption, regrets the surrogacy arrangement. But I heard that she has advertised, yet again, to be a surrogate.
I feel so awful for Anthony. He has been with the Worthingtons since he was 3 months old. He’s over 2 now and the Worthingtons are all he knows. I hope that whatever decision is made is actually in Anthony’s best interest and not on the whim of people who happen to be his biological parents.